Hoy estuve hablando con una amiga de lo dificial que puede ser cuando tu esposo trabaja muchas horas. Claro que no es por gusto y entiendo que es porque es necesario, pero eso no quita la realidad de lo dificil que puede ser para una pareja. Como comento mi amiga, es como si fuera uno madre soltera. Hay momentos en los que siento que ya no da mas mi paciencia.
Amo mucho a mis hijos, pero pasan ratos en donde quiesiera poder decirles o decirle a mi hijo, ve con tu papà. Pero no se puede. Y el dia que le toca estar libre a mi esposo, lo quiesiera yo mandar de nuevo al trabajo. Quien me entiende verdad? Lo extraño cuando trabaja mucho y cuando lo tengo en casa lo quiero fuera, jaja. Pero es por falta de costumbre, el no estar acostumbrados a estar siempre juntos. Y por eso cuando los niños duermen, nos quedamos despiertos a platicar. Aunque sea muy noche y tenga mucho sueño, es necesario. Por la sanidad de nuestra relacion! No crean que no amo a mi esposo, el es mi media naranja. Y nadien dijo que el matrimonio era facil. Pero con amor y entendimiento se lleva un matrimonio feliz. Nosotros ya tenemos 12 años y contando.
Today I was talking with a friend about how difficult it can be when your husband works a lot and many crazy hours. I know that it is not by choice but a necessity but that doesn't take away from the fact that it can still be difficult on a relationship. One thing that stuck to me about our conversation, was the part when she said that it's almost like being a single mother. There are moments when I feel like I have no more patience, and I wish I could tell my son to go with his dad. But I can't. Then there 's the day that my husband is off from work and I wish I could aen him back to work, lol. Who understand me right? When he's working I miss him and when he's home I want to send him back to work. Its all a part of not being used to being together so much and that's why for our sanity and our marriage. When the kids are asleep, we stay up talking, catching up on stuff and just watching TV, no matter how tired or sleepy I might be. For our sanity and for our marriage, its a must. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband. He is my half orange. No one ever said that marriage was easy and that is why with love and understanding you will have a beautiful marriage. We have been married for 12+ and counting!
Amo mucho a mis hijos, pero pasan ratos en donde quiesiera poder decirles o decirle a mi hijo, ve con tu papà. Pero no se puede. Y el dia que le toca estar libre a mi esposo, lo quiesiera yo mandar de nuevo al trabajo. Quien me entiende verdad? Lo extraño cuando trabaja mucho y cuando lo tengo en casa lo quiero fuera, jaja. Pero es por falta de costumbre, el no estar acostumbrados a estar siempre juntos. Y por eso cuando los niños duermen, nos quedamos despiertos a platicar. Aunque sea muy noche y tenga mucho sueño, es necesario. Por la sanidad de nuestra relacion! No crean que no amo a mi esposo, el es mi media naranja. Y nadien dijo que el matrimonio era facil. Pero con amor y entendimiento se lleva un matrimonio feliz. Nosotros ya tenemos 12 años y contando.
Today I was talking with a friend about how difficult it can be when your husband works a lot and many crazy hours. I know that it is not by choice but a necessity but that doesn't take away from the fact that it can still be difficult on a relationship. One thing that stuck to me about our conversation, was the part when she said that it's almost like being a single mother. There are moments when I feel like I have no more patience, and I wish I could tell my son to go with his dad. But I can't. Then there 's the day that my husband is off from work and I wish I could aen him back to work, lol. Who understand me right? When he's working I miss him and when he's home I want to send him back to work. Its all a part of not being used to being together so much and that's why for our sanity and our marriage. When the kids are asleep, we stay up talking, catching up on stuff and just watching TV, no matter how tired or sleepy I might be. For our sanity and for our marriage, its a must. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband. He is my half orange. No one ever said that marriage was easy and that is why with love and understanding you will have a beautiful marriage. We have been married for 12+ and counting!
Love,
Kary xoxo
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